Such is life.. Sometime it is, sometime it isn't. But, don't think too much like that. There are still have goodness everywhere. Should you open not only your eyes, but also your heart, you will see goodness everywhere.

Life is not a bed of roses, sometimes we win but othertimes we may have to yield. But in Psychological term, it's called 'cognitive dissonance' which is an uncomfortable feeling or stress caused by holding two contradictory ideas simultaneously. The theory of cognitive dissonance proposes that people have a fundamental cognitive drive to reduce this dissonance by modifying an existing belief, or rejecting one of the contradictory ideas. A fundamental element of Ego, like "I don't wanna smile" is conquered by a element of Superego "I have to smile"